Chapter 13 - Our Daughter Arrives Without A Reunion

Our daughter, Lily, was born in October.
Grant was at the hospital because I chose to allow it.
He cried when he held her.
So did I.
There was no reconciliation scene.
No miraculous realization that parenthood had repaired us.
We were already deep into divorce proceedings.
We became parents together while ending our marriage.
That was difficult.
It was also possible.
Grant attended pediatric appointments when appropriate.
We developed a parenting schedule gradually.
He learned diapers.
Night feeds.
The terrifying fragility of a newborn neck.
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He was a more attentive father than he had been husband.
I allowed both truths to exist.