Chapter 5 - The Question My Father Couldn't Answer
My father called La Paz University Hospital three days after my message in the family group, and he expected the receptionist to solve his problem immediately.
I did not hear that first call because I was recovering from surgery, but the story reached me later through his own embarrassed account.
He was standing on the terrace of a hotel in Ibiza with the Mediterranean glittering behind him and a construction client shouting through his other phone.
The Valdemoro project had reached a deadline he had promised without checking whether the technical package was ready.
The client wanted an answer about revised calculations, and the contractor at the site refused to proceed without valid documentation.
For the first time in years, my father discovered that my absence was not a scheduling inconvenience he could overcome by raising his voice.
He called my mobile phone first, then the office, then my mobile phone again.
Sofía had reminded me to switch off nonessential notifications while I rested, and I had followed her advice.
Inés told him that the written handover was available and that the replacement engineer had requested additional project records before accepting responsibility.
My father demanded that she find me.
When she told him I was in hospital after surgery, he reportedly replied that I would surely have my phone nearby.
Inés finally asked the question the rest of us had been avoiding.
“Do you know whether her operation is over?”
He did not answer.
He called the hospital's main number and asked to be connected to his daughter, Elena Haro.
The person who received the call explained that patient information could not be released without appropriate authorization.
My father said he was my father and demanded to know my room number.
A nurse handling the inquiry asked what kind of operation I had been scheduled to undergo, hoping to clarify what he actually knew before ending the discussion.
He could not say.
He knew the date, vaguely, and he knew I had mentioned a hospital.
He did not know which kidney was affected, what the doctors had found, or even whether I had been admitted for a minor procedure or something serious.
According to the account he eventually gave, the nurse allowed a brief silence before telling him she could not discuss my care.
She advised him to contact me or my chosen support person directly and wished him a good day.
No amount of money or irritation could turn a family relationship into permission to access private medical information.
My father stood with the phone in his hand, staring at the sea.
Mom found him there and assumed the office had interrupted their holiday again.
When he explained the call, she said I should have told them exactly what surgery I was having.
He asked whether I had not already sent medical details to the family group several days earlier.
Neither of them could remember reading them.
Natalia insisted that I had deliberately made the matter sound more frightening to spoil the trip.
Then my father opened our chat and scrolled above her angry message.
There, between old holiday photographs and a request for restaurant recommendations, was my explanation that doctors had found a growth on my left kidney.
Below it was the request for help getting home after surgery.
He had reacted to Natalia's attack without taking the time to read what she was attacking.
Later he described that discovery as the moment his stomach seemed to drop.
I would learn that fear had finally reached him when he realized my operation had already happened and he had no idea what the doctors had found.
But fear was not the same thing as responsibility, and he still did not call to apologize immediately.
He sent a message to my phone asking me to call him as soon as I was able.
Then, underneath it, he added that the Valdemoro client needed a technical answer urgently.
Even in the moment of his awakening, the company appeared as the second line of the same sentence.
By the time I saw the messages, Sofía had returned with a fresh shirt and a small container of the soup she knew I liked.
I read my father's note without replying and felt something I could not yet name.
It was not satisfaction that he had been embarrassed in front of a nurse.
It was grief that his embarrassment had been necessary to make him consider what was happening to me.
Sofía asked whether I wanted her to send him an update that confirmed I was safe without sharing medical details.
I thought for a moment and agreed that she could tell him I was recovering and not available for work.
She sent exactly that, no more and no less.
Within minutes, he asked her whether I could review a document from bed.
Sofía held out the phone and raised one eyebrow.
I closed my eyes because laughing would still hurt.
She answered that I was a patient recovering from surgery, not a remote emergency-signature service.
The message went unread for nearly an hour.
At the hotel, apparently, Natalia grew angry that a stranger was speaking for me.
She wrote privately to say that I had gone too far by involving an outsider in family business.
I had known Sofía for twelve years and trusted her with my hospital instructions.
Natalia had seen her at my birthday dinners and still called her an outsider because she was doing a job my family had refused.
I did not respond.
Instead I asked the nurse to help me sit up and walk a short distance when it was medically appropriate.
My body needed my attention in a way no client ever had, and I was beginning to learn its language.
The first careful steps down the corridor exhausted me.
I returned to bed feeling as though I had crossed a mountain range.
Sofía applauded quietly from the chair, and I told her not to turn my hospital walk into a celebration.
She said I was welcome to refuse, but she intended to celebrate it anyway.
At the other end of Europe, my family had photographs of ocean views and expensive meals they had chosen over a simple ride.
I had one friend, a hospital wristband, and a set of stitches I had not yet dared to look at.
For the first time, I preferred the truth of my small world to the luxury of theirs.
That evening a message arrived from my father without any mention of the company.
“Please tell me you're all right.”
I held the phone for a long time before answering.
“I'm recovering, and my doctors will decide when I can go home.”
He replied that he had been scared when the hospital would not tell him anything.
I stared at those words and imagined my father standing helplessly before a system he could not command.
Then I wrote the answer I had needed him to hear.
“That's how I felt when I asked for help and all three of you treated me like a problem.”
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He read it.
This time, there was no thumbs-up.
